i totally undrstand you! i had my first boyfriend at the age of 20 too, and after a while he started being such a ****.

i must say that what helps *a lot* to us girls is remembering we DESERVE a honotable attitude. i don`t want to give you more sugessions, you said youself you had enough. but i think that you should stay yourself and THINK about youself and about what will make you feel better in this situation.

the quesiton "does he love me" and "what does he think of our relationship" are all naturall.
but the REAL q? is:
what do I think of him now?
do i feel he is treating me right?

really, this "new face" of that guy-how does it look TO YOU?
YOU have the power, the decsison in your hands. do you still like him how much? how this relationtiop is important TO YOU?

becasue right now when you avoid each other - i suppose that only tempopry, becasue if you had a relationship you wil have to talk. so i think it will be good for you to deside how exactly you feel about it all and what you want to say.

are you frustrated? betrayd? losing interest?
talking honestly and revealing the truth is good, but not whem we blame the other and say what we suppose that he thinks, but focusing on ourselves!

good luck!