Brasucasulu, sweetie, your the amazing one. You have to start telling yourself that every single day! And even more than just saying it, you have to believe it! What is important in life, if we don't respect ourselves enough to feel that we deserve a man (or woman for you guys out there) that treats us with dignity and respect. We owe ourselves that. So start by putting yourself first. Make sure you have someone worthy of the wonderful person that you are. He's out there, and don't settle for less! I had to learn that i needed to change the type of man i was dating. If you keep dating the same type of lose guys, your not going to get the princes. Unfortunately, us girls are often attracted to the bad boys. But, you really need to give some of those good guys a chance. You're frogs just might turn into a prince! Mine did. Good luck sweetie. If u need me, just holler!