maven:
" but I really think you lack self-esteem "

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wemen NEED MORE self asteem!!! it was alwyas that way!
be nice forst TO YOUSELF. only then to others.

we have the illussion that if we maeks sacrifices we are good peopel and we are making everything great, but a society and a family consist of individuals, and every indovodual has to take care of himself.
then we just gove those oeple who take adventage of us the illussio that it`s o.k, when it isn`t.

it`s not doing better to anyone.