I care that they have the proper credentials and are licensed. I couldn't care less if they are a Social Worker, LMHC, PsyD, PhD, or NP. I also don't care where they went to graduate school, so long as they went to one.

To me, it's important that they are have experience with the disorders they say they do. For my daughter, I've seen so many clinical psychologists and psychiatrists who list autism as a specialty and they know about as much as anyone can find on the internet. I've known more than some of them have and it burns me because it's such a waste of everyone's time.

Otherwise, sincerity, empathy, intelligence, and an ability to think outside the box are most important for me. I like someone who has an eclectic approach. People are so different that I think a good T needs to be aware that one type of therapy does not work for all. So they should be versed in more than one therapeutic approach and be willing to mix it up a little. Lastly, I like someone who is direct and doesn't coddle me. If they think I might be sabotaging myself or if I'm inconsistent, I want them to tell me. Be nice about it of course . I can't stand a T who is passive and indirect. There is a way to be kind and honest at the same time, and for me, it's really important.