My friend Heather came to give me a birthday present when I was at work the other day. I was really busy and she noticed this and said she would come and see me later on. She never did. I texted her to thank her for the gift but had no reply. Would it be fair to say I have annoyed her? I feel a bit annoyed myself as sometimes when I buy gifts for her they either don't get acknowledged or she just texts to say thanks like I have done.
She has made me feel all guilty and I don't think it is deserved.
The only thing she could have taken offence at is that I said in the text, I probably won't see her in work for ages now as she makes no effort now she has moved department. She never makes the effort to see me anymore and when i try to see her, she says she will come and see me but doesn't bother.Perhaps she saw it as passive aggressive or something. To be honest, I am more friends with her mum which is why I think I got the gift in the first place. What would you do now?