Jan, I think you had justification. One thing I've found out from experience is that people do not listen to me when I ask politely. I don't know this is true. I will even warn them and say, "You are making me angry. Please do/don't do this again."

Then, when I lose my temper, they are shocked, truly shocked. LOL. But they conform, %#*&it.

Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. If I could express my authentic self like that, it would be a blessing. I am trying to connect with my inner Wild Woman and you are there. I hope I can catch up with you.