Wow, Erin, your T sounds like a disaster! Just not healing at all. Do you know what his therapeutic approach is called? Maybe that is a good starting point for when you look for a new T, avoiding someone from his school of thought. That can help narrow it down at the outset. In my opinion, any referrals he might offer you would be suspect.

Hang in there. Dumping this T is a step toward your healing.

sunny