Yes, I bring it up all the time. Last session, I told him I needed him to be more comforting...he said that if he could comfort me more he would.

Every time I mention inconsistency, he tells me he is consistent. He is for the most part, so maybe it is just that I pick up on subtle differences? It can be his tone, voice patterns, facial expressions and other body language... But I also think everyone is a bit different here and there.

Maybe it IS just me? I'm confused. If it was just me, I could see thinking this around intense emotional experiences, but it's not that way. I think this all the time.

But I've never framed it this way, so maybe I will be more exact next time. Good idea.