There has been a form of CPS since 1912, CPS is not new. My parents have very few influences except who watches us. They participate in 57 hours of their children's life a week if they're lucky. Add home work, dinner, daily care it gives parents 21 hours to influence their child if they are lucky. Then sports and driving and your down to the low teens.

I wasn't allowed to adopt so we decided to have a child. No amount of money, interviews, or paperwork boils down to being a good parent. Parenting classes are BS. My parents are not responsible for my successes or failures. There are some things that parents can't teach. I don't feel it's the parent's fault for murderers, rapists, ect..... I'm sorry that is to simplified and just plan wrong, IMO.

I'm sorry you seem to be using your parents as a escape goat instead of looking into who you are.