FEMALES are RELATIONSHIP ORIENTED, therefore, WE act and react for ITS benefit....
even if it is only in the long run that we see these benefits.

.... I personally have gone thru this type of thing my self and I wrote about it on here on PC - and as I stayed in the marriage and stood firm (for my rights) it all worked its way out and all is good again.

.... If one is to stay in the marriage and work thru this they must first realize that SEX (its chemical high) is addictive, therefore, it will take some time for one to come down from this high and stop partaking of the sex act they were indulging in as their DRUG of CHOICE - in this case "sleeping sex" (with permission).