Wonderful Post!! I can relate to so much of this. I know a lot of people and have a lot of relatives but I don't have a support network. I have really been looking closing at people and questioning their role in my life. Several people I consider friends/family only seem to be around when they need something or want to take advantage of me in some way. I know I have a lot of issues and I question if something in me attracts others with issues. I have never heard of the "Meta Message" before but I plan on reading about it!

I think we recognize ourselves in others. When people have the same issues I would imagine they gravitate towards each other. My concern is I need to be around those who are emotional healthy so I can learn how to be that way.