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Sep 09, 2014, 10:09 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 98
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I agree with all the other posters have said! Your boyfriend is "slumming". Your location says Tampa and you stated his family and friends are still in South Africa so it sounds like he's in the states for work. That far away from everyone is makes it easy to dip his toe into other waters. The fact that you live with him means you are doing everything a wife does without actually being his wife. He is not going to marry you and probably still has a relationship if not still married to the so called "ex-wife". You need to get out before you get hurt even more. Eventually he will return to the white life he's more comfortable with or he'll trade you in for a different flavor while still in the states. I pray your strength... 
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