I agree with all the other "RUN don't walk" minded posters! I would also like to add that this appalling behavior/attitude he has is a definite sign that the relationship is a dead end! How will you ever go any further in it? Marriage?? What, with a bag over your head instead of a veil so his "friends" won't find out? Children?? No, this guy doesn't deserve you! If his "FRIENDS " are so damn important to him, what was he thinking?! Why did he even involve you in something that would hurt you like that? If YOU were his priority he would lose the loser "friends", who if you ask me are no friend to him anyway if they "sit in judgment" of who he should or should not love based SOLELY on prejudice! Please find someone worthy of YOU! Hugs & good luck to you!