You keep changing your story! What the...I have spent a lot of time writing to you on this thread to try and help you out and this is how you address me for the first time? Unless I missed it in the almost 100 replies. You've even mentioned that you don't understand how a woman in her 40s has never had an orgasm!
We're you expecting people to say, "go ahead buddy, live out yor fantasy?"

I think I'll leave before I say something I regret.