I think cocky was the wrong word. I don't walk around acting or even thinking I'm better than anyone else. I think someone said extroverted, which is weird because I always thought I was introverted but I guess when I think about it I can usually start a convo with anyone I meet. People at stores, parties, wherever. I wasn't always that way but my husband makes me feel like I'm the smartest and most beautiful woman on the planet (I'm not that naive but it does feel good

And I did think about cocky people actually being insecure. Good point.