When I compare myself with others, I realize I do this out of insecurity/fear.

What matters is what we do with what we have.
Life is a go at your own pace learning experience; it is not a competition.

Humility is seeing and accepting one's self in truth.
It is good to see ourselves as beautiful and intelligent.
Exalting one's self is good as long as one does not diminish others.
We all have assets and defects.
I try to work on my defects and use my assets to benefit others.

When I identify (not compare) myself with others, my motivation is love.

For what it's worth...