Why is it that some have the need to try and challenge me? Is it because of being a narcissist? Feeling underneath or below me? I get along with so many here, have some fun and some serious conversations too. For some reason I'm like a magnet for people feeling the need to prove themselves to me. Or should I say compete with. To clear the air I do understand why, it's why some are here. To prove that their n traits are better than mine. I am not in a competition however I will sometimes respond to the little voices that are here out of pure fun. As many if you already know I am one to have fun, make jokes and play games. Why feel the need to always be either so serious or better yet the need to prove themselves. I write at times with a very serious mindset and other times I like to laugh and joke. People come to these forums with the same crap all the time, I think I'm a ? My ex did this. My parents did this. Blah blah blah SE
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Different day and person. This is why I have fun here and at the same time there are many who have become involved in doing the same. Yes it is good to relate, to feel that your not alone I do understand this helps. At the same time it's also great to come here and have people laughing and having a good time. We deal with our issues every second of our lives. Me personally appreciate the fun and still don't understand the attempts to challenge. I learned a while back that sometimes it's better to bypass rather then write your immediate reactions as these are the evils that make us. Look back at my own writings, I may say something that generalizes all but never go after someone personally unless they begin at doing so. I was shown at the circus that I did that many times, people would write and I would challenge everything and try so hard to make them look stupid(which I accomplished very well). Someone their sent me a message in a way that was helpful. He pointed out my N traits in ally writings and made me realize I was wrong. Let people talk the way they want as it wasn't my place to correct them no matter how much it bothered me or that I disagreed. So keep that in mind when you try to challenge someone, what are the reasons for doing so? You will realize that in fact it is not "HEALTY" and that the reasons your doing it is the same thing you wish you weren't. Dropping science for all!!!!!
Thank you for your time,
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