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Originally Posted by BrliPerDis
How do you open up to other people when your taught for so long to shell up and deal? Now trust has been compromised with everyone in my life so people outside of my life trust is such a hard thing to over come. I cant do this alone i need someone there but how do you find that someone when your terrified.
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Take your time, open up little by little, share only as much as you're comfortable sharing, and wait for the next opportunity. It's hard finding a person you feel comfortable about opening up.
I opened up to only a few people before, after I tell them all my weakness and problems, they usually stop talking to me or ignore me for whatever reason, it hurts. I end up feeling like I shared so much with them, only for them to ignore me and move on.