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Originally Posted by butterfly76
I seriously need some advice. I have no friends and no one to talk to about this situation.
1. My boyfriend has been treating me like a roommate for the past month. No touching whatsoever. No saying he loves me. Nothing. Just going through the motions of living together. Having meals together. But him sleeping on couch.
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I'd google relationship skills on that one and learn how to get what YOU want.
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2. He has major health problems like heart and cancer. But Still smokes. About 3 weeks ago, he told me and his friends he is no longer going to the doctor.
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Since he's a bf and not a spouse, I'd let him sink or swim on that one.
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3. Today, we were planning on going to do some errands. I found him passed out face down on the driveway. Called 911. When he came to, he refused to go to the hospital. He said it was just a waste of time to go. This is at least the 4th time I have found him like this in the last 3 years. Plus other times where others have had to help him. He has always gone before. Most of the time, he has needed a new stent or sometimes something with his pacemaker. The last time was in June of this year.
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Since he is not a spouse, I'd leave him to his own solutions!
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I would appreciate anyone's advice. Thanks.
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I'd get into a support group like Codependents Anonymous or see a therapist to get the strength and power to live life on MY terms and not be stuck with or to a very dysfunctional person like I used to be. Self Esteem work helped me a lot [google it].
good luck finding your freedom,
jim
