I know that living around my H was driving me up the wall, crazy & my anger made me see red by the time I left him....it took several years for me to calm down.....after moving 2100 miles away & only allowing written communication.

I'm guessing but if you got a divorce & left her & ended up on your own, you would probably find yourself a new, much happier & better person as I was able to do....it's amazing how some people can effect your life in such a negative way even though they were supposedly in love......

Mismatches happen & it's better to get out than to continue to be miserable