It's his choice to react. .. I think people are a bit quick here to only imply it's his choice to react... bipolar isn't an excuse for our bad behavior.. such as non stop whining and complaining. ... now please hear me out.. I'm in no way shape or firm trying to condone his behavior in the slightest... even if he's not directly hitting you he may as well.. throwing things at you is basically the same thing in my opinion.... however your the only one that can control yourself...