I hope you come to realize that no matter how verbally heated your arguments get, no matter how jealous you get of his female friends, no matter how many times you hack into his fb, he has No Right laying a finger on you!

I'm sure it's part societal, old fashioned talk, oh she had it coming, oh she incited him, etc. It's not true.

It's honestly tough, grasping how capable another human being can offer seemingly loving gestures, yet underneath such loathing they don't think anything of battering you around. Maybe they aren't like this to others, then again maybe they are. Seems you are his emotional and physical punching bag. Yet, I get finding the good in him. Been there, done that. Hard to demonize another, when one clearly sees their own flaws and imperfections, who's to judge, right?

The state prosecutes, in an effort to try and prevent Murder. It IS that Serious. I hope you come to see how serious it is.