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Originally Posted by Solipsist
Give it to her. Sometimes it's easier to write things down than to say them aloud, but getting the information across is important regardless.
About the girl: She sounds like a winner, but a word of caution... many young women have a Saviour complex. It could be our biology's way of getting us prepped for motherhood. Just be cautious that you don't let her be YOUR therapist. Sharing = good. Burdening = bad.
Also, if you are a college/university student there is a good chance you have psychiatric/student help centre access and could probably start visiting a therapist or a peer support member for free. It could be a really good place to start figuring out how to express things and feel things in a safe environment.
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Havent thought about that, the savior complex, i try my best not to burden her with all these stuff. I am a working man. So there is no student help centres for me. But we have made progress, to be honest i am starting to feel something for her i think, how minuscule it may be, its very new to me. will give her my letters when i go visit again, she stays about 3 hours away.