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Old Sep 11, 2014, 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted by HazelGirl View Post
My T talks about how when we experience trauma, our hearts go into hiding, they close off, and we go numb.

Anyone else's T say anything similar? Anyone know where these thoughts comes from? I haven't been able to find anything relating to them online.
Yeah, I would say she is describing dissociation - emotional dissociation in particular. My T will ask me what my heart wants and all I can say is I don't know. I've hidden my heart so well I've forgotten where I put it.

I call it being frozen - I have images to go with it that describes the feeling better but I haven't been able to put them into words yet. Sort of like frozen white marble surrounded by ice...
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