UCLAfan...I too am alone, and choose to be, because of tthe abusive, dysfuctional relaitonships from the past, been stalked, etc.. I seclude myself most of the time. I work as a teacher, do my job, and then come home to my pets and my studies as a grad student in Art.
I am finding fulfillment alone for the first time in my life, focusing on self-improvement and finally not looking for or wanting a man in my life.
Yes, sometimes I do feel lonely, but not so much so that i will put myself in emotional jeopardy by seeking out a precarious relationship. If someone of value should enter my life, I am still open to it, but for the meantime, I'm taking care of myself, probably for the first time in my life.
If you have options for study in some area, I suggest you do so. It's very fulfilling and increases self-esteem and independence!
Patty