Hi everybody,

I need some advice/help/opinions please. My husband left 2 months ago and I received an introduction letter from an attorney on Monday saying it appears the marriage is over, my husband is interested in filing a marital separation agreement with the courts and if I'm interest, to please let him know. My husband has been telling me for 2 months that he doesn't know what he ultimately wants and I'm being blamed on him going to an attorney. He says I have to have an answer immediately and I pushed him in a corner.

If he is telling me he still loves me/still in love with me....what is going on? I'm a ball of confusion and not sure what to do.

Now, I do have an appointment tomorrow with whom I hope to retain should I need her. My hope is to go for abandonment/desertion, mental cruelty (yes, I'm on prescription drugs now) or involuntary separation. I just want to make his life hell so he feels what I've been living through for the last 2 months.

I know this sounds so harsh and cruel but I think leading somebody on for 2 months and then getting a letter in the mail is way crueler.

What would you guys do?

Thanks!!!