It's hard to do both. Finances are hard (getting insurance soon, however) and then just remembering to operate in a slightly different manner with them. That's tough too. But nobody interacts with any one person the same. Everyone's different. It's helpful though. I like gaining different perspectives. It probably doesn't help that they're both older men. T2 has asked me if I have any transference feelings for him...and I said, "Will you be offended if I said I don't?" Cause we talk a lot about my feelings for T1. Therapy aside, I do enjoy having intelligent conversations with older men. It sucks that I have to pay for it, but eh.