It was a coincidence how I found out my therapist was talking about me. I asked a coworker how their online dating was going and was told about different people this person was seeing who were nuts, one was a therapist who said this and that about the clients, so unprofessional. The person works in the same field. I indentified right away with what was said about me because it was so identifying and specific to me, and something I keep private. My name was never even mentioned. So no, no one was trying to hurt me.