Ts are trained professionals, who look for things to clue them into something "deeper." So, they look for certain things, that may suggest there was abuse and then ask. My T knew for awhile that there was something more, and I too, felt so exposed like everybody must know if T guessed. Then T reminded me that my parents still seem very oblivious to the fact that I was ever abused.. So, I am not as transparent as I thought I was.