I thought I had a good relationship with my therapist and that the therapy was very helpful to me. The therapy ended on good terms when the therapist moved away. Recently I heard the therapist, although he didn't mention my name, was saying negative, mean, unflattering things about me using specific, identifying descriptions of me while talking in social situations. I was shocked and hurt by this. What was said about me privately was the opposite of what was said to me in sessions. I have no interest in confronting this therapist. I have been damaged enough by this incident. It's that these unresolved issues are really bothering me. I'm wondering if I should write a letter and send it to the therapist, that way I can get what this has done to me off my chest. I know I can't just ignore it and pretend like nothing happened. This has really hurt me. I need help as to what to do about this. I currently do not have a therapist to discuss this with and how am I supposed to trust one again after this?