In case anyone's interested - I met with T today. She did not feel an apology was warranted, but she did remark that I seemed more insistent than normal, less able to tolerate distress. She didn't find me annoying, but did feel that the text message I sent her after session was kind of crossing a boundary. Texts are usually reserved for more emergency situations or scheduling, not just to complain, which is kinda what I did. So, I probably wasn't wrong in sensing annoyance from her about the text, but she didn't actually say she was annoyed.

Basically, all T said was that I didn't owe her an apology. She did agree that my behavior was outside my norm, but not extreme by any sense. So, I just know that it's something I have to be aware of now. T gave me some additional tools to cope with feelings and I think we're good again.