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Old Sep 11, 2014, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by growlithing View Post
It wasn't a boundary violation. Neither of us felt boundary violated. I'm saying people on here seem to get upset about boundaries really quickly like when she tied my shoes.
Eeek, you misunderstand me.

I think what she did was perfectly appropriate.
A boundary crossing is when a T does something out of the ordinary that is helpful and therapeutic, although not standard.

A boundary violation is something more sinister.

Your experience seems to fall in the healthy category.