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Originally Posted by Eisha
. . . He has never been with anybody but me. So as time went by he stopped trying to ignore and keeping his distance but instead I believe he started doing things that actually makes her impressed with him. For example he works out everyday and he became muscular because my sister is obsessed with muscular men. If she asks him for a small favor he goes far and beyond and spends hours of his time trying to help her when he can just do it in 5 mins. He always tries to please her and make her happy and appear as a nice guy. He always wants my whole family to be with us when we go on vacations. He booked our last vacation with her without me knowing even-though I had told him we will not go on a vacation. . .
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. . . seems like there was a great change.
If you were my younger sister, I would advise you to talk to your husband by starting this way: "when were/are we having harmonious family, before or now that you seem interested with my sister?" . . . "do you think our children are affected to this current situation?" . . . "can you give good reasons why you can't avoid my sister?". At least you will be able to see where your family stands by his answers and body language then have plan A and B in place.
Just some thoughts.
Hope this will be resolved sooner than later.