I'm not looking for another place, and I think this one is perfect enough for me. It's so amazing to me however that from what I gather, you feel EVERYONE should be able to say whatever they want, no matter how it affects other people; yet when I have something to say, I should "find a place more "perfect" and "doesn't dr. phil have a board" that I can go to.
I think we're a family; and my opinion should count as much as yours. I feel very misunderstood, but that's okay, It doesn't make me want to run away or kill myself.
I think I quite sympathetic to those who are truly on a "JOURNEY"; but the insensitive part of me has little patience with those who have stopped dead in their journey and just suck the life out of me. I am the FIRST to admit that I am insensitive in this matter; for MY journey I can choose whom I associate with; so PLEASE don't suggest that I go somewhere else. There are so many wonderful people here truly on a journey; you are one of those--I don't claim to be perfect or right; or pretend to have all the answers, but I have just as much right to my opinions (no matter how wrong they may be) as anyone else including you.
I don't plan to go anywhere, and I would never suggest that you should find another place either. As in life, if you don't like where you're at, it's not always useful to leave, but changing the things around you are often helpful. When I'm having a problem with our "disfunctional family" I don't want to leave it, I just want to make it a little better.
Anyway, I've rambled too much; but again, that's my right as much as the next insensitive person's.
Blessings,
Jon