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Old Sep 11, 2014, 07:47 PM
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She's been on meds for a couple years. She has moved fast in every relationship except her last. She's bisexual and her last relationship was with a woman. The woman was pregnant and married when they met. They were together for 6 years. My nephew, called my sister Mama and his birth mother Mommy. He called all of us auntie and my daughter knows him as her cousin.

A little background, my LS never had a relationship over 2 yrs before this. Every relationship, even in HS, she found online. She moved fm CA to TX for a guy she'd never met in person. She moved in with him and said yes to marrying him. I threw her a going away party and all that [our older sis married a Marine and lived in SC]. She was 17 then, now 29. I'm 3 1/2 yrs older. Anyway, it lasted a year, she blamed him even though she found his replacement online in our hometown, so she moved back home. That guy was nice and he was ok with her experimenting with girls (whom she met on CL). I'm not knocking online dating at all. I know people who have been married for years and they met online. I understand her co-dependence. Now she broke things off with her girlfriend and is dating a Sherriff's deputy she met online, 7 weeks ago right before she broke up with her girlfriend, and basically her stepson. She convinced everyone it would be better that way. He knows her as or of his mom's. Poor guy is probably heart broken. I know my little family is. But my LS didn't have the courtesy to tell me they broke up and we were out a cousin and nephew. Ugh, I feel like contacting his mom and seeing if we can have play dates.

My LS even slept w/my HS boyfriend when he was 18, she was 14 but that's a whole other can of worms.

The thing is, when she goes through this little cycle, and I believe it's her manic stage, even worse with this guy. She said he's saying that he want to marry her and have kids and so does she. Maybe they are madly in love after 7 weeks. But she has been super manic every time. She also said she doesn't know why she's taking the Lamictal because she feels fine.

Also, she hasn't told him she's Bipolar, GAD, like a cancer patient aenemic. If he really does love her like she says, I think she would have told him. She also said she didn't want to tell him because she takes meds that he arrests people for. Wth. She has scrips. She's irrational. She's a nurse for crying out loud.

Anyway, she sounded offended and changed the subject quick when I told her it's unfair not to tell him.

What do you think, opinions, theories?
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