I met this woman at yoga studio. She seemed to be very laid back and zen. She is around her 60's,I'm on my 40's. We became friends and started walking in the beach and hanging out a lot. She has very few friend, although she knows a lot do people in our community.
I was nearly separated after 10 years relatioship and had a lot do men interested in dating me. She was trying to get over her break up, her lover left her like 4 years ago. She was very sad and a little obessesed with the man.
I asked her for some advice.

I was talking to a guy who lives in the town were I used to live. I met him through my ex. I really liked him and we communicated many times a day. One day out of the blue, this lady asked me: are you sure he isn't spying you for your ex? They live in the same town.
The weekend after that she was telling me that one of the men on our yoga class liked me, that he was always kind to me,etc. she said, if I was you I'd be his lover. He's a very sucessful lawyer, he's is intelligent and attractive. I went for dinner with this man, but he is just not my type. I told my friend that we went for dinner. Like one week after that, I was leaving the gym and I got a call from her. She was very nervous and told me: don't sleep with that lawyer, he has HIV!
I was shocked! I didn't sleep with him, but I got shocked anyway.
I asked my friend how does she know that he has HIV. She said that she hasn't see any diagnose or test, but she remembers that he was very sick 10 years ago, and that he travel abroad for treatment. I got even more confused. I told her that it could have been anything else. She said, no it was HIV but he's fine now because he's rich and could afford the treatment.
My question is: why was he pushing me to someone she knew has a mortal disease. What friend would do something like that?
What can u do? Maybe stop being her friend?