Hello ThinkTank -- There is a lot of pressure on college students, in my opinion. I am older woman who teaches college. The images on TV promote false images of how easy relationships are, and often they are not. Plus, college studies often seem a giant step away from high school and a lot of self-motivation and self-reliance is required.

Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself.

Does your college have a counseling service? It's usually free, and I'll bet they help you find other outlets for meeting and mixing with people.