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Old Sep 11, 2014, 10:22 PM
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Location: New Mexico
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My boyfriend of two years and I have a good relationship. Yes, we have our problems (which I've posted about before), but for the most part he's everything I've ever wanted. Yes, our sex life sucks, but I love him so much it's becoming easier to deal with.

The big problem is that he's told me he never intends to marry me. I've been married three times, and he's been married four. Our marriages were awful. He says the commitment without a certificate means more than a marriage certificate. I disagree vehemently! If someone loves you enough, they should be willing to marry you. He's not. He's 57, so he will probably not change. I'm 40 and want to marry again. Not just anyone--I want to marry HIM! No one else. But if he can't do that, and it's a deal breaker for me, at what point do I say it's time to go?

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