I know I do snap a lot and I get angry really quick, but deep inside I really want to take care of him. He's very stubborn, and I'm trying to get him to follow a responsible path (my parents are, too). I know a lot of you have said that this doesn't really matter because he's social and he plays to blow off steam, but I didn't go into our family schedule here in my post. Our schedule is strict: times for bedtime, exercising whenever possible, waking up, eating, etc. It's not as strict as "The World's Strictest Parents" O_O, we cut loose, too.
My parents are doing their roles as parental figures, so I try not to get in the way or else I'll annoy the heck outta 'em V__V""" They were raised with a firm hand as they did with me so I let my parents to the parenting, but when they don't, I try to help my brother. Thanks for the advice, everyone