It's one in five girls and that's a "normal" population. So I can imagine it'd be much, much higher with girls/women suffering from depression, eating disorder and SI behavior... It's not the way you breathe...
I don't like her I-just-knew response:
A she didn't, she could have suspected it but she didn't know.
B many CSA survivors already worry ppl can somehow tell and this feeds right into it.

No, I don't see a problem with her giving you a ride/weird she felt taking you to school would be too much- feel like that's implying she felt it was not kosher. SB is not a great place for therapy to start with but than again she is NOT a T... I do wonder about tell me your feeling re the memories but not the memories approach. Now that's new... Can't imagine how that would go... Cant she just help you find a real T?