I think it's probably best to wait longer than 2 months before getting married, so as to avoid these issues, those of which I presume are usually only found very early on in a relationship.
I would continue with the divorce and steer clear of him, if he is abusive, like you say. Take it as a learning curve, perhaps?
Best of luck.
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