I really appreciate the list, Detia! I will start trying to repeat some of those.

GC, he and I have discussed it. He keeps assuring me I am not contaminating. Puzzle, my T has also told me he is not at risk of a burnout, but I do worry about the situation you describe. On those rare occasions in the past when I let my guard down some, invariably people would retreat from me, or something bad would happen.