Hey guys, thanks so much to all of you for your input . You have given me so much to think about, as you all bring up such valid points.

To Matthew/TragicKingdoms, thanks for sharing and for finding my posts intriguing (despite them being so way out , especially number one). I'm glad to hear that you have been able to let go of your disastrous relationship with your ex-wife and that you are now searching for your "ray of sun" again. So, OK, you decided not to have children, or it just sort of worked out that you didn't have any (either or). But, would you ever have children, if I may ask? You know, if you find your loved one and the situation is right?