Thanks guys.

Even before I was really thinking about it, my mom had said on more than one occasion that I could go and live with them and they would make it work even though space is limited. She mainly said it because I was extremely upset that they were staying in CA and had told me that they were coming back to NY which is the only reason I renewed my lease here.

My relationship with my parents is probably about average for someone my age (23). I don't like them getting too much in my business, but I appreciate their help and support when I need it.

Also, you think NY is expensive? For what I pay in rent I would get something much smaller without utilities included in the Santa Cruz area! My rent is about $1000 for a 1 bedroom that includes all utilities, even heat, cable and internet, except electricity which is never more than about $30/month.