StbGuy...

People cannot change for other people.
We have to change for ourselves.
That is a basic fact of life.
Also, it matters not what you were or what you had in the past,

You have many false beliefs about the way things work in our Universe.
You need to get wise and strong.

You are not happy because you have not yet learned how to be happy.
Do not feel bad! Everyone has to learn from scratch.
Be determined to improve yourself.
There is no other way.
We have to live life on life's terms.

I say these things out of compassion