Actually I do not think all females wish to get with someone who would want to have kids some day. I am female and do not want kids since I don't think i could really take care of them since I have enough difficulties functioning as is...also not sure what all the hype about having a normal life is all about, what is so awesome about that.....do the same thing everyone else does just to say 'yay life is normal'. I mean you're focusing a lot on the mainstream of what is 'normal' and seems like you think everyone strives towards that and thus you have no chance of a social life or marrige since you don't fit that mold...but not sure that is so true, since there are plenty of more open minded sort of people, that don't really find the whole prospect of a 'normal' life all that appealing anyways. Also plenty of people have 'normal' lives but are unhappy due to what is missing from it or its all plesantries on the surface but underneath things are much more dysfunctional than they'd seem at first glance.

Also though even if you did have kids there is no 100% guarantee they'd have aspergers...but that sort of thing is up to you not all people want to raise kids for all kinds of reasons.