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Sep 12, 2014 at 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Plus, due to your circumstances, corporeal punishment may be entirely out of the equation. By virtue of circumstances.
I agree, in speaking, remove all passive statements. As much sympathy for her emotional fragility, you are the adult in charge.
I like the hold technique. My middle son responds best to it, haven't had many but just holding settles him, it's comfort actually and a means to stop aggressive behavior. Had a nurse friend tell me about this technique long before I became a mom. (Adding: soft gentle shhhhhhhhh, shhhhhh, not shush, but like a gentle white noise, it's ok...thing doing that)
May be the only way to curb her aggressive behavior. Remember her emotions aren't in the normal ranges.
How's she today?
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She is even worse today. I don't know what to do anymore. I had to give her a spanking earlier - I felt horrible and it was only 4 and they weren't really hard. She broke a vase on purpose and was hitting and kicking and out of control. I don't want to spank her ever again.
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