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Originally Posted by hankster
Why do you think you call what you are doing, "your little tricks"? That sounds like someone else's accusation of you, simply for having needs. It sounds familiar to me.  Yes, you will feel panicky and horrible at first, relearning this process with your t. But eventually you will become a pro at it, no tricks needed. |
Thanks hankster. I never thought of that being someone else's accusation, but you could be on to something! I find needy people frustrating, and never want to be needy. So if I reword them and call them "little tricks" it's more about getting my way/ winning then being needy....... Realisation! Thank you!