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Old Sep 12, 2014, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I am at the older end of the age scale of posters. My upbringing was not unusual for the time. Babies/children were supposed to bend to the will of parents - it was not an usual concept of the time. The problem with me was that it seems sometimes I did not go along with it of my own accord.
This is exactly the case with my husband, who's older than I- in his mid 50s. Having a child now, he is nearly two generations separated from what young parents consider the normal, enlightened way to parent.

Even my therapist, who was trained in the 90s, is a little out of touch with how a lot of parenting was done in the 50s and 60s. It wasn't all Leave it to Beaver.