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Old Sep 12, 2014, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by StressedMess View Post
I'm not saying you were abused, nor was I, just that parents were capable of misconceptions in their day just as we are now. The collective "we" as children internalize and take blame from where it belongs and heap it upon ourselves, thus growing up believing we are flawed, unworthy, even unlovable. My question was broad, why do kids too young to know better automatically take the blame for the faults of adults?

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Because as a dependent child, it's safer to believe there is something wrong with you than the person you need to keep you alive.
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